The most desirable women are usually the ones that are the most self-sufficient. Why? Because confident women tend to be strong women who do not tolerate a lot of shit – not only, do guys find that appealing, but it’s just an excellent way to be.
Here are some things that set this kind of women apart:
- They are hard to get. That does not mean they play games – it just means that they are hard to get. They do not just fall for any cute guy flirting with them. They make a man work for it because they know they have alternatives.
- They believe in Love. Sarcasm is natural – after all, it’s hard to not a little cynical after being single for a while. Strong women hold on to optimism. They love the romantic lives alone. Think about it – if you do not expect a lot from people or love, you will be more willing to settle with nonsense, because that’s all you think exist. But if you think you deserve genuine kindness and believe that a great guy is there for you, you’ll be less likely to waste time on the bastards.
- They do not put up with bullshit or do denial. Boys playing all kinds of games – everything is fair in love and war – but keep the most independent women themselves in check. They do not need to lie to themselves. They listen to their guts and tell you the truth. If a man does not seem to take them seriously, they bounce.
- They do not negotiate when it comes to the basics. There are things we have to hand on a boy – our place or, missionary vs. cowgirl, rom-com vs. movie – but there are other things that should never be heard such sentiment is discussed, appreciated, supported, equal and secure. Independent women understand this and do not give in when it comes to things that are important.
- They concentrate on their strengths, not their weaknesses. Strong women have insecurities like the rest of us, but they do not let them define them or their opportunities. While uncertainty is natural, we all need to do our best to stop those useless, negative thoughts that keep us silent down impose. After all, the more you act like a desirable woman, the more people will treat you like one.
With these qualities you can make any guy hunger for you. You just need to show how valuable you are and respect yourself